Post by sol on Jan 18, 2009 22:37:18 GMT -6
As I have just aquired a female child I have come to ponder what I shall teach her about life. I tell everyone that they should write her a book on the way she should live and those things to do and not do.
This brings to light many different aspects of reality since it is a very large experience full of drama and mis communication.
At work and in all parts of my life I find most pointedly the difference between myself and others ability to LISTEN and reply with the proper information without offense or emotional attachment.
So much of life is spent trying to get people to just get along, to get fools to be distracted with something that keeps them from eachothers throats.
In my job, as with most functioning organization there is a boss, a boss under him, and workers of various experience. A poisonous working environment comes when a worker of vast experience is not in charge and holds a negative assertion over the boss and or his second man, creating a cell against them within the others.
Dissent against anything from the largest to the smallest, inaction, pretending to not comprehend, hesitation and blatant actions given priority over that of the master craftsman are common.
These same rules apply to all life. Think about your day and look to see who is making everything smoother for those in charge. Tho i disagree with my master craftsman quite often in those orders and actions he undertakes I do obey because he is the established power and assisting him moves the job to completion much quicker than with me giving my own ideas.
To fight this man at any time is a waste, but sometimes he will ask my advice, and by my prior acceptance and silence his ears become within those moments the most open and reasonable ears. These moments are those that every person should wait for.
Within your desire to spread this faith and understanding that we here share, there is a key that will unlock any door barring you from anyone. With your silence and assistance, at some point, the perfect point, the space will come for you to tell them, for you to guide them and until that point only impatience retards your progression towards total dominance.
This brings to light many different aspects of reality since it is a very large experience full of drama and mis communication.
At work and in all parts of my life I find most pointedly the difference between myself and others ability to LISTEN and reply with the proper information without offense or emotional attachment.
So much of life is spent trying to get people to just get along, to get fools to be distracted with something that keeps them from eachothers throats.
In my job, as with most functioning organization there is a boss, a boss under him, and workers of various experience. A poisonous working environment comes when a worker of vast experience is not in charge and holds a negative assertion over the boss and or his second man, creating a cell against them within the others.
Dissent against anything from the largest to the smallest, inaction, pretending to not comprehend, hesitation and blatant actions given priority over that of the master craftsman are common.
These same rules apply to all life. Think about your day and look to see who is making everything smoother for those in charge. Tho i disagree with my master craftsman quite often in those orders and actions he undertakes I do obey because he is the established power and assisting him moves the job to completion much quicker than with me giving my own ideas.
To fight this man at any time is a waste, but sometimes he will ask my advice, and by my prior acceptance and silence his ears become within those moments the most open and reasonable ears. These moments are those that every person should wait for.
Within your desire to spread this faith and understanding that we here share, there is a key that will unlock any door barring you from anyone. With your silence and assistance, at some point, the perfect point, the space will come for you to tell them, for you to guide them and until that point only impatience retards your progression towards total dominance.