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Curious
Sept 13, 2006 22:36:28 GMT -6
Post by ibiss on Sept 13, 2006 22:36:28 GMT -6
Why oh why is it so hard to draw women?Why do I use them as symbols of my self expression exclusively?Am I a mysoginist if I have a tendency to crete relevant symbols of female gods and show great reverance to female archetypes but avoid them like the plague in real life?Why in reality do I find them so distateful and wasteful/inefficient ,materialistic and annoyingly talkative yet in my fantasies they are the perfect definition of femininity,strength,intelligence and power?Why in my fantasies do I omit men as even existing to the point even the presence of myself is missing?
Do I have a hatred for women where I revere them as godesses as a symbol of reverse psychology?Or do I suffer from a ragging storm of deeply rooted mother complexes that erupt through a hateful defiance of mundane woman?Why are they the targets of my hatred yet at the same time the targets of my praise and desire to see them in social dominance free of injustice.
What sort of self contradictory fool am I?Did I build this complex to protect insecuritites or did I stumble across them by accident?What of this wretched curse than?Is this an everlasting sybol of the dissatisfaction that has appeared as a permanent outcome every tarot reading?
I am a bastard but should this bother me?I shall be lonely and dissatisfied for most of my life until death.I doubt I can ever speak to a woman the same after sex or seeing her nude as thus my virginity is eternal.Iam repulsed by the sight of men...better yet make that humans in general.Can anyone else relate?
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Curious
Sept 14, 2006 14:56:35 GMT -6
Post by darkstar on Sept 14, 2006 14:56:35 GMT -6
Women are hard to draw because you make it so. Anyone can learn to treat women the right way, you just need to know how. There is a guy called Mystery that has a method for seducing women, that may help, here: www.mysterymethod.com/ . I also recommend you read a book, The Game by Neil Strauss, it would give you a good idea. Of course you can use some free online resources too www.fastseduction.com/. But most importantly you need to know more women and understand them, there are too many of them.
Artistic expresion is a way to express represed feelings, I think that your obsession with women have to do with your inability to deal with them. You need to make friends with women and that way you will understand and appreciate them more.
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Curious
Sept 14, 2006 16:59:04 GMT -6
Post by I AM the Way on Sept 14, 2006 16:59:04 GMT -6
it may be a combination of things:
1. you're putting the p*ssy on a pedestal.
2. your insecurity and alienation from women is creating a superiority/inferiority complex about women.
3. you've got some weird 'female domination fetish' going on that you aren't fully aware of. you secretly get off on worshiping idealized images of women and probably also enjoy having them treat you like crap. there's a good chance that your conscious mind is rebelling against this unconscious 'dominant female fetish' which makes you hate them and occasionally lash out against them emotionally.
at least, that's how it strikes me. i think you need to think about things and get your head straight before you dive into dating.
VS
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Curious
Sept 15, 2006 8:06:33 GMT -6
Post by darkstar on Sept 15, 2006 8:06:33 GMT -6
Darrick is correct he may need some psychological assistance, or heal his mind by himself. But I think that the guy needs a method too, maybe if he gets some women he will get over his problems. There is a vey simple method that Nobel prize winner Richard Feynman proved succesfully with every women he tried, he explains it in his book "Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman" ( www.gorgorat.com/ ) in the chapter "You Just Ask Them?". The basic idea is this: don't be a "gentleman" with women because otherwise they will use you.
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Curious
Sept 15, 2006 15:13:22 GMT -6
Post by ibiss on Sept 15, 2006 15:13:22 GMT -6
Oh..by draw I meant pencil on paper draw.I admit I have much work to do when it comes to putting humans in general on paper.(Sighs)
As for women I rather remain disconnected.Distance works wonders.Guess Im just disappointed they're not how I imagine them but of course I imagine them as I do to deviate from how women really are.A circular loop I guess.
I do however have a large set of complexes about women.I just rather not try it because I will be disappointed as generally happens with humans.Im told it be better to imagine it as great than discover it as dull.
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Curious
Dec 6, 2006 22:02:43 GMT -6
Post by youma on Dec 6, 2006 22:02:43 GMT -6
Aaaw poor thing. Well I wouldn't look too far if I were you. Nothing in what you said sounded particularly disturbing, though overanalysis might be a problem if you do it a lot. Want a woman's point of view of it? You sound shy, not crazy. Got male friends? You can get female friends. You know that "common interest" crap? Well it's true. Your friends are your friends because they can have fun talking about things you both like, go out, drink a beer, whatever. If you don't get along with the girls you knew, they weren't the right girls for you, that's all. Look for a friend in your girl, that's not just a feministic slogan, if you don't like her personnality she won't make you happy.
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Curious
Dec 12, 2006 10:44:46 GMT -6
Post by jameson on Dec 12, 2006 10:44:46 GMT -6
Well as far as art goes drawing the female form is just fine now.In terms of interacting I will take your advice.Perhaps i may find a person worth pursuing and the fall/winter blues may release this opressive vice grip around me.I will do it (eventually) and perhaps even destroy this cursed mark of virginity.
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