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Post by jameson on Jul 21, 2007 18:58:28 GMT -6
As many of u know Ive been single and a virgin forever.No problem.As of recent I have been wondering about something...if I look for a relationship,should I bother going for a woman into magic , someone whos just open for anything or a woman with some religious beliefs?
Personally i wanted to exclude a woman with Christian or any other religious ties but I figure pussy is pussy.An open minded chick with no beliefs Id find ideal but conversation would seem strained/acted and diifficult on my part.
Ah but an occult woman...Im not a practicioner of magick as you all know.I am an artist who resonates with the ideas revealed from those who practiced.I initially felt id try an occult woman but now im not too sure.Conversation depending on her persuasion would be easy and interesting due to my natural interest in magick from time to time.The problem here would be reprecusions if it doesn't work out and i decide to dip leaving a ruthless cultist on my ass.Would i have to put up with some degree of dogma though?I like to think of practicioners as open minded but i dunno anymore...Are there some equally as bad as devout Christians in terms of rigidity?
Any of you guys have dating experience?What kinda woman worked for you?Were beliefs /practice an issue? Is it wise for a guy like me to deal with a woman into magick?Would i have to put up with magick attacks from her opponents or backlash from her rituals?
I have an i dea of what i want from most women...pussy religious gals and freethinkers included so long as i beat and leave.But its the women i actually want a relationship with that brings issue.I'd like a deeper than sex relation with a woman who at least has knowledge of occultism....but should i even consider a full fledged practicioner or is it a risque move?
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Post by I AM the Way on Jul 21, 2007 22:05:14 GMT -6
walk before you can run.
your situation is like a first time car buyer. you both might have fantasies about what that ultimate and perfect car/woman would be like, but that's just not going to happen in the beginning. go for something manageable, something realistic and low maintenance first... then work up to your ideal.
find a woman that you find attractive, likes you, and you have at least a few things in common with. talk with her, ask her out, slowly put the moves on her. and when that fails (as it usually does), just keep going out there and do it all over again.
VS
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Post by laughingdead on Jul 22, 2007 0:27:01 GMT -6
I found mine by just being me and not trying to guess what she wanted me to be... You have to talk to them and be friends first and really this is the paradox... It has to be someone you dont want at first because they have a sense of things really and if you seem too desperate or interested they tend to not like that unless thier just looking for sex... Sex is a good thing and maybe is best at first without emotional ties... Be a player and make them think you are a mystery and are different from the other idiots they have been plagued with...
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Post by Yevathik on Jul 22, 2007 1:33:03 GMT -6
Well, I'd suggest someone with at the very least a tolerance of occultism, so that when she finds out she won't think your a complete psychopath (even if you are. )
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Post by youma on Jul 22, 2007 19:59:34 GMT -6
If you have a relationship with a non-occultist girl, mind that she might find you really annoying if you always go: "Oh no, that demon is coming for me again! I must do a defensive ritual right now!" I had a boyfriend that kept doing that, and I was always thinking "He's always taking his silly games so seriously!" - it's hard to take it seriously when it's not your religion and the other is being so fanatic.
But then, anything relating to people is complicated and unpredictible and you could end up getting along perfectly with someone who thinks your faith is just some silly thing of yours.
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Post by jameson on Jul 22, 2007 21:35:52 GMT -6
hmmmm....good point lol.Should I use an online dating service or myspace for booty calls/relationships or is it better to meet a woman in person?Should i randomly talk to sexy chicks that give me that look or should i create a favorable circumstance via magic?What experiences have u with any of these if any?
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Post by youma on Jul 23, 2007 12:35:48 GMT -6
For one-nighters and any kind of short relationship, go for whatever you feel most comfortable with. Unless you're monstrously ugly or antisocial, you can always have some sex from time to time, how to look like a good fuck I guess you have to try and learn from your mistakes as you go.
For serious relationships, well any course you follow will have to involve you and your partner getting to know each other, so expect it to be slower, probably not getting her in your bed before a while.
Where to look depends on what kind of mate you're looking for. Intellectual girls won't be found so easily on dating services, and well, the cutest ones don't need it either. If you know how to make friends in general, some of the candidates ought to be girls. Talking to any girl that attracts you may be disappointing - only a few will be attracted in any given person, so you'll hit a lot of wrong ones if you hit randomly, but it's better than talking to no one. Don't be too desperate to get a girlfriend RIGHT NOW, you waited so far, you can wait a little more and avoid being pushy, or too nervous. I don't think it's wrong to try and use magic to help your efforts, you don't intend to make the girl unable to take a decision for herself, and it can make you feel more confident, so nobody loses.
As for my experience, all the relationships I was in for any kind of time began on the Internet, people whom I met on forums or on ICQ and who only learned that I was female after we grew friendly - someone who's interested without knowing that they have a chance of getting more than friendship qualifies as a nice guy. Of course the Internet has the downside of letting you getting to like someone who lives hundred of miles away.
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Post by jameson on Jul 23, 2007 13:25:07 GMT -6
Im not an ugly guy,im told i can be pleasant to the eye from time to time but i do have many anti-social tendencies.Is there a way i can override this strain of silence and avoidance so that i may come across as a Baphometic beast of sensuality and confidence?Im not faxated on the fast fuck but i dunno if in my current state i'd get any hoes or a nice relationship with a decent woman...Are there women out there who just wanna fuck?What about those in your area advertisements on porn sites showing horny chicks in your area,anyone try that before?
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Post by youma on Jul 26, 2007 17:24:05 GMT -6
Not a freak and not a sociopath; Well then I see no reason why it would be out of your reach, you just need to find the right approach. (and hmm, sociopaths and freaks can get laid too, they just have to try harder) No amount of advise will help if you can't bring yourself to start the conversation with the person that interests you, so I'll leave it to the boys as to how to beat down the obstacles that come from inside.
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Post by eratciv on Sept 27, 2007 6:47:12 GMT -6
I should probably not give an advice but I will anyway. i have had flings with a couple of girls whom I never mentioned the occult to but the only real relationship I have had is with a wiccan girl. We may not agree on much occult wise but she tolerates my obsessions and I ignore hers. Doubt that will help you any but maybe.
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