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Post by Deleted on May 6, 2010 13:07:44 GMT -6
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Post by I AM the Way on May 6, 2010 14:16:59 GMT -6
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Post by maguni on May 7, 2010 8:21:25 GMT -6
I read the game and I thought the philosophy it espouses (inspired by the Venusian method if im not mistaken) is lacking, superficial, shallow and ineffective. The whole peacocking, the negs or whatever the fuck they are called, the whole waiting till a girl compliments you till you compliment her.. its all bullshit. Girls want to me treated the way they want to be treated. They appreciate intelligence, good looks, humour but most of all.. charm. I have lots of that, so i ain't got nothing to worry about. When approaching women, the last thing you should do is impose a set of rules conconcted by neil strauss and his affiliates. what you should focuse and expend your energy on is being yourself, being spontaneous, charming and sweet (though not corny nor soppy; girls hate that shit). Instead of accepting a set of rules laid out by some dude who really doesn't know much of what he speaks of, or atleast claims to speak of is to do an injustice to your chances of meeting a nice girl. Instead, i would recommend creating your own set of rules as your going along ; AND NOT LOOKING TO NEIL STRAUSS FOR GUIDANCE; of course, these cannot be called rules, but rather guidelines If you start imposing rules as to how to talk to women, how to flirt, how to get them in a favourable position to fornicate with you, particularly when they are not yours and are stolen from others but yet particularly when those rules are RUBBISH, then you lose the whole idea. You lose that inner fire, that spontaneity and sense of newness and freshness. You lose it, and girls will pick up on it; trust me. Additionally, i find this whole idea far too petty for my licking. Accepting others' rules and and applying them with regards to such a delicate and sensitive matter is to cheat yourself particularly when they suck big time; to do so is to signify you are a wimp and a coward. And what girls want that? Instead, follow your instincts and most of all.. have fun. And a good day to you
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Post by 10kdays on May 7, 2010 11:54:49 GMT -6
I read the game and I thought the philosophy it espouses (inspired by the Venusian method if im not mistaken) is lacking, superficial, shallow and ineffective. The whole peacocking, the negs or whatever the fuck they are called, the whole waiting till a girl compliments you till you compliment her.. its all bullshit. Girls want to me treated the way they want to be treated. They appreciate intelligence, good looks, humour but most of all.. charm. I have lots of that, so i ain't got nothing to worry about. When approaching women, the last thing you should do is impose a set of rules conconcted by neil strauss and his affiliates. what you should focuse and expend your energy on is being yourself, being spontaneous, charming and sweet (though not corny nor soppy; girls hate that shit). Instead of accepting a set of rules laid out by some dude who really doesn't know much of what he speaks of, or atleast claims to speak of is to do an injustice to your chances of meeting a nice girl. Instead, i would recommend creating your own set of rules as your going along ; AND NOT LOOKING TO NEIL STRAUSS FOR GUIDANCE; of course, these cannot be called rules, but rather guidelines If you start imposing rules as to how to talk to women, how to flirt, how to get them in a favourable position to fornicate with you, particularly when they are not yours and are stolen from others but yet particularly when those rules are RUBBISH, then you lose the whole idea. You lose that inner fire, that spontaneity and sense of newness and freshness. You lose it, and girls will pick up on it; trust me. Additionally, i find this whole idea far too petty for my licking. Accepting others' rules and and applying them with regards to such a delicate and sensitive matter is to cheat yourself particularly when they suck big time; to do so is to signify you are a wimp and a coward. And what girls want that? Instead, follow your instincts and most of all.. have fun. And a good day to you Paragraphs and grammar are good things, Maguni. As far as the content in your post, I can agree somewhat with the necessity of instinct. However, there is a psychological science to all social interactions, and if you pull the right strings you can get whatever you want from people. Anton Lavey actually went into depth on this concept, stating "It is not so facetious to dwell upon the technique of the man who wished to charm the young lady who had been displaced from her home of childhood joys, which happened to be a fishing village. Wise to the ways of lesser magic, he neatly tucked a mackerel into his trousers pocket, and reaped the rewards that great fondness may often bring." Sure, one does need to act naturally, but it doesn't hurt to have an advantage.
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Post by Deleted on May 7, 2010 13:14:40 GMT -6
maguni, these rules worked perfectly. You say : "They appreciate intelligence, good looks, humour but most of all.. charm." No, it's false. Good for you if you are successful, but it's not because of your intelligence and humour (of witch I do not doubt ! ), this is absolutly certain... Much more likely, it's because YOU KNOW that you will success, and THAT is what they appreciate. If you are naturally successful whith women, lucky you are and you don't need help. For me (read my introduction) it was very difficult, but please don't doubt I'm looking good and don't doubt of my intelligence. Now it's working fine, thanks to Neil Strauss.
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Post by maguni on May 8, 2010 1:46:32 GMT -6
Hey lep and yreight, thanks for the replies. Will be really busy the next 1-2 weeks but i will be replying once i have the time. Also, i had this nice encounter with a a pretty woman and i think im going to share something i wrote for her when and if i have the time. i think you will like it Gotta love girls! Oh and ugh yreight, I am not doubting those virtues I mentioned in you. Will be writing again on this thread, once I get on track.
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