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Post by Timotheus Prophet of Darkness on Jun 6, 2011 19:40:37 GMT -6
Ok one of my roomies (my ex bf's boyfreind) as me confused as hell.i'm crashing out at some of my familes place at the moment.
Ok about a month ago my ex's bf said he needed to talk to me about something,I aske dif it was something bad he said no he didn't think it was,but thinks where hectic and we never got the chance to talk about it,now today while on facebook he said he needed to talk to me, I again asked is it something bad,and again he said no he didn't think it was,
And a few minutes alter he said if he only had the gas he'd swing by so we could talk.
Well and he called me "hun",something he's never done in person or online and i've never known of him refering to another guy as "hun",then when he found out i'm planning on going camping thursday,he wanted to know where,what time i was leaving to go camping,and how long i planne don being there.
So he's got me all confused on this:I don't knwo if he's ya know just being freindly are what,I think the thing thats thrown me for a loop here is the whole "hun' think seeing as he's never called me that before
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Post by boksmutant on Jun 7, 2011 2:56:22 GMT -6
He's looking for some "Timotheus action" man:)
Awake!
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Post by sin on Jun 7, 2011 7:42:10 GMT -6
so you are roomies? Yeah sounds like he's testing you, to see how you respond to his interest in your trip, calling you hun, etc. How did you react? Why not just be direct? Everyone is different, some people like to beat around the bush about things, I don't. I would have just asked him: So yeah, am I your hun now? Wanna go camping ? *wink*
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Post by Timotheus Prophet of Darkness on Jun 7, 2011 9:18:42 GMT -6
so you are roomies? Yeah sounds like he's testing you, to see how you respond to his interest in your trip, calling you hun, etc. How did you react? Why not just be direct? Everyone is different, some people like to beat around the bush about things, I don't. I would have just asked him: So yeah, am I your hun now? Wanna go camping ? *wink* Well i'll admit I was like ,I I chose not to act like noticed it,when i get the chance i'm going findout what he's wanting to talk about.
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Post by sin on Jun 7, 2011 11:05:19 GMT -6
so you are roomies? Yeah sounds like he's testing you, to see how you respond to his interest in your trip, calling you hun, etc. How did you react? Why not just be direct? Everyone is different, some people like to beat around the bush about things, I don't. I would have just asked him: So yeah, am I your hun now? Wanna go camping ? *wink* Well i'll admit I was like ,I I chose not to act like noticed it,when i get the chance i'm going findout what he's wanting to talk about. And now look at you, all perplexed. I prefer to be direct, why pretend? You really want to know don't you? I would have addressed it right then, right there. Do you generally handle things in this same manner? Carefully plotting each move? What if he never tells you? What if you missed the boat because you didn't respond appropriately? Seems a bit self-defeating to me, but ya know - each of us is different.
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Post by Timotheus Prophet of Darkness on Jun 7, 2011 12:40:50 GMT -6
Well i'll admit I was like ,I I chose not to act like noticed it,when i get the chance i'm going findout what he's wanting to talk about. And now look at you, all perplexed. I prefer to be direct, why pretend? You really want to know don't you? I would have addressed it right then, right there. Do you generally handle things in this same manner? Carefully plotting each move? What if he never tells you? What if you missed the boat because you didn't respond appropriately? Seems a bit self-defeating to me, but ya know - each of us is different. well if he uses the hun bit on me again i'm going to ask ;D
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Post by sorcererofshadows on Jul 24, 2011 9:09:19 GMT -6
They're right you know. From what you've described it does sound like he's interested in becoming more than friends with you. It also sounds like he's nervous so try and be gentle with him.
Good luck .
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