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Post by Sarak G'hash on Jun 9, 2010 14:38:05 GMT -6
I'm not dating at the present. Find most too shallow. I invest my time with many and into my perversions but they leave. A lot of time and effort wasted Awake! I find most too psychotic...lol Awake!
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Post by glade on Jun 14, 2010 12:00:51 GMT -6
i hear ya...lol
Awake!
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Post by scarletprincess on Jul 5, 2010 19:11:24 GMT -6
It's rare to find someone who accepts you as you are and is willing to grow with you as a person; mind, body and soul.
When you do find that person; I wouldn't think you would continually walk away at every obstacle that doesn't work out in your favor.
Relationships are about working together, taking the good with the bad and finding a balance with your partner.
You should practice what you preach; your words:
Indeed, the short relationships can be 3 times as much work as a LTR. but that's why it was short to begin with, the three components were not there...
1. compatibility
2. chemistry
3. being at a similar place in life
when all three are in accord between two people, then a relationship can take root and grow. otherwise, it's just temporary entertainment (or headache).
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Post by I AM the Way on Jul 5, 2010 20:13:36 GMT -6
Interestingly enough, I just ended a short term relationship with a girl precisely because the chemistry wasn't there. When I compare that relationship to a few I've had in the past, well... there was no comparison. There's either magic, a special undeniable connection that makes an individual irresistible to you or there isn't. I tried, Cthulhu knows I tried to let the compatibility and similar place in life be enough. Sadly, it wasn't enough.
LTRs take work. Even the girls you dearly love and are physically, emotionally, and intellectually enamored of can give you a headache, can get on your nerves, and cause you to take them for granted. But being in a relationship with someone you just really like? Down the road that's going to spell disaster.
What can I say, this world is full of suffering. The trials and tribulations of romance... just a drop in the bucket.
Awake!
Venger As'Nas Satanis Cult of Cthulhu High Priest
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